One of the moods of the Tsomorai lake

One of the moods of the Tsomorai lake
A souvenier from 'Ladakh'...

Friday, January 14, 2011

Is Valentine approaching next month??

That element called ‘Romance’

The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender ~

-Emil Ludwig

                                  No wonder Love and Romance rekindles that energy within you and you turn out to be  all new as if born with wings and ready to take on the whole world with a blooming soul.   Life sometimes knocks with Romance and when you open and invite this guest called ‘Love’ it fills your life with true colours that were missing earlier. In love a person ‘deceives’ and gets ‘deceived’ for as we all know that ‘love is blind’! It gives you a sight which makes you see the ‘unseen’ makes you feel the ‘unfelt’ and awakes that feeling which has been sleeping all this while.  In more pristine terms it opens our eyes from darkness, awakens our spirits and takes us to a joy ride to heaven and the divine.  When you meet that someone who makes your heart tick faster or when in that first kiss you embrace life in its completeness then it’s this time when you have actually stepped in to happiness which you had never experienced before.  Worries run far away from your otherwise mundane and stressed life and tranquillity is the one who replaces it! 

With you and your spouse no matter however old you are ‘Romance’ keeps this heart younger and beautiful and the beauty grows as years pass by. It’s that old wine which you would want to cherish every second and let it grow older as ‘the older it would get, the richer it would become’!  Life today is so much badly affected with factors such as stressed work routine, a mundane life, artificiality and materialistic urges blowing bigger and selfish goals or thirst that is never satiated.  We have come far away from breathing oxygen.  It’s only this feeling which can bring us back from the dungeons of violence, treachery and aggression.  Giving time for your love, going out on romantic evenings and having sumptuous candle light meals together are sure de-stressors in our life.  Once in a week outing to some remote peaceful location with your loving spouse, giving her that special attention for which she had been waiting for can bring oceans of changes and happiness in her. And this charm will cast magical spell in your otherwise monotonous life.   Knowing your spouse better and sharing romance for a while can bring wonders to your love life. Why just that the very feeling of togetherness with your partner can refresh the whole personality of yours.

                           Often when you might hear a ‘cliché`’ such as ‘Hey! You are really looking charming today.....are you in love’? Has got some meaning in it. Love does reverse your age and make you look younger not only from within but also the external of you. So go ahead and bring back all those romantic vibes back in your life..............you will not remain the ‘same’ again!


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-Barkha verma ( Author )

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